"It's easy to make war. It's always harder to make peace"

"It's easy to make war, especially with the means the
Americans have," the defense minister replied from the
head of the table in a room with ornately painted
ceilings and velvet wall tapestries. "But it's always
harder to make peace."
http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/content/article/2006/10/17/AR2006101701584.html
For French Defense Minister, Shock and Awe Is Nothing
New
At Home and Abroad, Michele Alliot-Marie Manages to
Surprise
By Molly Moore
Washington Post Foreign Service
Wednesday, October 18, 2006; A15
PARIS, Oct. 17 -- French Defense Minister Michele
Alliot-Marie -- one of the world's few female defense
chiefs -- relishes describing her first encounter with
the Saudi Arabian military.
"For the troops, it was extraordinary to see a woman
there," Alliot-Marie, 60, said in an interview,
recalling the 2003 trip. "Some smiled. And others --
if they could have stoned me, they would have done
so."
Back home in France, some of her encounters have been
no less strained. After years of stealing kisses in
phone booths, Alliot-Marie said, she was forced to
publicize her secret romance with French lawmaker
Patrick Ollier seven years ago when a French magazine
photographer shimmied up a tree outside her apartment
building and snapped pictures of the couple through a
window.
During France's bitter transatlantic rift with the
United States over the Iraq war, the defense minister
was one of the first officials President Jacques
Chirac dispatched to the United States to try to patch
up relations.
On Wednesday, Alliot-Marie returns to Washington, not
only as Chirac's defense minister but as a potential
candidate to succeed him as president next year.
Her visit comes a month after her chief rival in the
ruling party, Interior Minister Nicolas Sarkozy, made
his own four-day campaign-style swing through the
United States proclaiming his ardent support for the
Franco-American alliance.
Although tensions between Washington and Paris have
subsided dramatically in the past three years, the
French public remains dubious of its political leaders
being seen as too close to members of the Bush
administration. Sarkozy returned from his trip to
scathing newspaper headlines and columns denouncing
his appearances with President Bush.
At a Ramadan dinner at Paris's Grand Mosque last week,
Alliot-Marie dined on slices of roasted lamb.
Afterward, young Muslim leaders grilled her on her
views of the U.S. approach to the problems of the
Middle East.
"It's easy to make war, especially with the means the
Americans have," the defense minister replied from the
head of the table in a room with ornately painted
ceilings and velvet wall tapestries. "But it's always
harder to make peace."
A few days later, in an interview in her massive
office at the Defense Ministry, Alliot-Marie said, "I
think we should always distinguish between
administrations and peoples. There are very strong
ties between the French and the American people,"
which she said remain intact regardless of the
administration in office.
In an effort to highlight the historical ties between
the two nations, Alliot-Marie will attend a
commemoration of the Battle of Yorktown in Virginia,
where white-uniformed French soldiers joined George
Washington's ragtag American army to defeat the
British during the Revolutionary War in 1781.
Alliot-Marie's agenda for her meetings with American
officials, including Defense Secretary Donald H.
Rumsfeld, will be centered on the Palestinian-Israeli
conflict, Iraq and Afghanistan.
On the political battlefront at home, the French press
has focused on the possibility of two female
candidates running for president in 2007 --
Alliot-Marie from Chirac's Union for a Popular
Movement party, or UMP, and Segolene Royal from the
Socialist Party -- if their parties nominate them.
"I think it would shake the French up a bit," said
Alliot-Marie, who said she will not decide whether to
seek her party's nomination until later this year.
"But after all, it already shook them up a lot to have
a female defense minister, and with time they found
out it was not so bad."
While Royal tends to play up her feminine side -- she
offered few complaints when newspapers ran
unauthorized photographs of her in a flattering blue
swimsuit during her summer vacation -- Alliot-Marie
insists on being called Le Minist re , using the
masculine French form, rather than La Minist re , the
feminine form. To help prove she was up to the job of
defense minister, she has parachuted with troops and
visited soldiers in Afghanistan and Lebanon. She
exudes a forceful personality, wears her hair cropped
short and favors trousers and tailored jackets.
"The first time I arrived in this office, all the
major generals were here," Alliot-Marie said. "They
all gave me the military salute, and I saw in their
eyes that they wondered what was falling upon them. It
was visibly a shock to men."
She was the first woman to lead Chirac's former RPR
party and remains close to the president. She was
elected to the lower house of Parliament in 1986 and
has been reelected every term since, leaving the
National Assembly only when she became defense
minister in 2002.
Alliot-Marie, who is divorced, began dating Patrick
Ollier -- another member of the National Assembly with
higher ambitions -- about 22 years ago. Alliot-Marie
said they kept their romance secret for 15 years so
neither would overshadow the other's career.
"It was really amusing," she recalled. "From time to
time, in the National Assembly when both of us were
deputies, we hid in telephone booths to kiss."
Ollier, 62, is chairman of Parliament's economic
affairs and environmental committee and is mayor of
his home town in central France.
Since they went public with their relationship seven
years ago, "we never had time to get married." Such
partnerships are not uncommon in France. Royal also is
not married to her longtime partner and the father of
their four children, Francois Hollande, who is leader
of the Socialist Party.
When Alliot-Marie accompanies Ollier on weekend trips
to his home district, she said, she leaves her
bodyguards behind and tries "to be the mayor's wife
and not the minister of defense."
Constituents often seem surprised to see the defense
minister in the local markets.
But Alliot-Marie, dressed on a recent day in a
military-style brown-striped jacket and olive-brown
skirt, said, "When I leave the ministry, and when I
take off my minister costume, I'm a woman like any
other."
Researcher Corinne Gavard contributed to this report.
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